What is Love Spark About?
The Summary:
In my five years as a sexual wellness consultant I had countless private conversations with women, and couples, and noticed a common theme, intentionality. Whether the conversations were positive or negative, those who were intentional about their experiences and time together tended to describe their relationships more positively, while those who weren’t did not. After recognizing this too late to save my own marriage, I made it my mission to learn what it took to create a healthy and lasting relationship for the future. As I learned the skills to do just that, it became clear that this was my purpose; to help couples reclaim and deepen their connection by guiding them through intentional experiences with research backed methods.
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Mission
Our mission is to guide couples in cultivating intention to deepen and strengthen their connection.
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Vision
We envision a world where intentionality is the foundation of every relationship.
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Values
Fun & Exploration
Passion & Purpose
Intention & Vulnerability
Embrace the Spark
Growing up in a single parent household I had no idea what it meant to be in a healthy relationship. As I grew older, I realized the relationships around me were not only unhealthy, but toxic. Without knowing much, I knew those were not the types of relationships I wanted for myself. So when I married my husband I thought I had broken the cycle.
During the course of my marriage, it became apparent that we did not have the tools or skills to manage everyday stress, disagreements and conflict. So, I began to rely on tactics that I saw in the media while growing up, my only source for “positive” relationship reference. Unfortunately, without real-world skills, what began as squabbles, annoyances, and complaints became a chasm within our relationship, ultimately leading to divorce. Like so many other couples.
After the divorce, it was important to me to actively seek clarity in the part I played in creating our unhealthy relationship dynamics. By recognizing my failures as a partner, I vowed to find love and create a thriving and healthy one. That meant, having uncomfortable conversations with myself, standing in those failure, and learning new skills and tools to navigate relationship conflict and strain which happens in every relationship.
In learning how to do that, I found my person and we have built a successful and healthy relationship. After feeling the strength and freedom a healthy relationship can foster, I realized this was my purpose. To guide others to succeed where my first marriage had failed. To share the same tools, skills, and principles to guide couples and singles.
By using Love Spark, couples will be better able to navigate conflict and work as a team within the relationship, while singles gain more clarity on what they want in a partner, how to date more intentionally, and build a beautiful relationship from the very beginning.