Singles Consulting

Lessons in Love: The Gottman Seven Principles for Singles is based upon over 40 years of relationship research and is meant to help singles:

  • Strengthen relationships, including those outside of romantic relationships.

  • Foster community support for singles and normalize experiences.


During the workshop participants have the opportunity to learn and practice the Seven Principles of Making Marriage work by Dr. John Gottman:

  • The Friendship System

  • The Conflict Management System

  • The Shared Meaning System

Tonya Williams is a Gottman Seven Principles & Lessons In Love Leader

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  • What participants can expect:

    • Participate in a 4 hour session.

    • Receive a singles guide for notes & exercises.

    • Learn skills to have great conversations while dating.

    • Choose to practice the newly acquired skills.

    • Connect with other singles by sharing your dating experiences (optional).

    • Work on breaking unwanted patterns.

    Investment: $175

    *Light refreshments will be provided.

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  • What singles can expect:

    • One-on-one guidance through 7 principles

    • 10 sessions total

    • A singles guide for notes & exercises

    • Learn skills to have great conversations while dating

    • Practice newly acquired skills with your consultant

    • Work on breaking unwanted patterns

    • Each client gets an intake session, seven principle sessions, update sessions, and reduced investment cost for all other update sessions.

    Let’s chat to see if we’re a fit! Use the button below.

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  • Applications open Spring 2026! Please fill out our connection form so we reach out and potentially add you to our list of eligible singles.


Upcoming Workshops

Saturday, July 19th: 10am - 2pm / Registration is now open and closes July 5

Saturday, October 11th: 10am - 2pm / Registration Opens August 30 & Closes September 27

Saturday, January 24, 2026: 10pm - 2pm / Registration Opens December 13 & Closes January, 10

*seven singles needed to hold workshop. Otherwise purchase will be rolled over next workshop.